Chapter 1: The Role of Anxiety in Life After Work

Anxiety is often viewed negatively, but I hold a different perspective. In today's world, where meditation and therapy dominate discussions about mental health, I advocate for embracing a certain level of anxiety. It's essential to comprehend its origins and recognize that it doesn't define who you are, while still allowing a little anxiety to linger.

A touch of anxiety can be a powerful motivator. Personally, I've experienced morning anxiety for as long as I can remember. As a teenager, I would sit quietly at breakfast, while my mother would chatter away, fully aware of my need for silence. My expression was often akin to that of a cat reluctantly submerged in water.

It's well-known that morning anxiety is common. For me, it sometimes dissipates after breakfast, while other times it lingers. I refuse to simply sit and hope it vanishes by the time I finish my coffee. Feeling like a boxer pinned against the ropes can be disheartening, but I've learned that when I wake up anxious, it often propels me to achieve something positive within the next few hours.

To combat anxiety, I find that going for a run is highly effective. I view exercise as a natural antidepressant that strengthens the connection between mind and body. On days when I can't run, I still engage in productive activities, whether that’s writing, sending an email of complaint, or diving into an engaging book.

The alternative—doing nothing—can ruin my day, and potentially spoil my girlfriend's mood if I interact with her in that state. Anxiety paradoxically pushes you towards constructive actions, instilling a sense of purpose. When we look at successful individuals broadly, we often see that many are simply managing their anxiety to fuel productivity.

"Most successful people are just a walking anxiety disorder harnessed for productivity." — Andrew Wilkinson

What relevance does this have for retirement? Quite a bit.

Retirement isn't about ceasing work; it's about prioritizing our personal needs and desires. As someone who enjoys physical activity, I pay close attention to retirees who prioritize their health.

While in Thailand last year, I encountered a remarkable 69-year-old on the beach. Despite the wrinkles around his eyes and mouth, his impressive physique suggested he was thriving.

Curiosity got the better of me, and I asked him about his fitness routine. He explained that he lifts weights on the beach at 5 am, five days a week, skips lunch, and avoids sweets. Additionally, he works a few hours a day as a fitness coach.

You might attribute his dedication to discipline, but I argue it stems from anxiety. At 69, with the challenges of maintaining muscle, cognitive function, and bone density, it's understandable why he felt such pressure to stay active.

His discipline ensured he didn't miss a workout, but it was his anxiety about the consequences of inactivity that truly motivated him. Despite the rigors of his routine, he appeared content with life in a tropical paradise.

An anxious retiree can lead to a fulfilled retiree. The memory of that conversation on the beach still resonates with me, and this fit retiree serves as an inspiration for my own retirement, which is still years away.

You don’t have to match the activity level of a 69-year-old fitness enthusiast to find happiness in your later years. Simply achieving 10,000 steps daily can suffice, but it’s crucial to keep your mind engaged.

Throughout life—education, family, and saving for retirement—structure is often provided. However, once you retire after 40+ years, the challenge becomes maintaining structure on your own. The easiest path is to become a couch potato, but that's the most detrimental choice for retirement.

Setting goals is essential during retirement.

A friend of mine, Aldric Chen, suggests that we should converse with actual retirees to grasp their concerns fully. The key takeaway from my discussion with the 69-year-old wasn’t merely about physical health, but the realization that beyond financial stability, we need to plan meaningful activities for when work is no longer mandatory.

Without goals, life can become monotonous, slowing down your metabolism and stifling mental sharpness.

If you struggle to establish clear objectives, let a little anxiety guide you.

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Chapter 2: Insights from Real Retirees

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