Chapter 1: Understanding Stubbornness

What does it take for someone to reconsider a viewpoint that is evidently flawed? We find ourselves living in the Information Age, which coexists with the Misinformation Age, creating a complex landscape of understanding. While some individuals actively seek to verify and expand their knowledge, others cling tenaciously to misguided beliefs. This persistent obstinacy is particularly evident in those who endorse harmful ideologies that promote the suppression, discrimination, or elimination of diversity, whether it pertains to human beings, nature, or ideas. Why do people resist changing their minds even when faced with overwhelming evidence?

Contrary to popular belief, I don’t think the fear of being wrong is solely responsible for this resistance. In fact, the more extreme the belief, the harder it can be to confront the possibility of error. When people are publicly shamed for their opinions, it often reinforces those beliefs rather than dismantling them. Embarrassment tends to lead to defensive behavior, prompting individuals to take extreme measures to avoid acknowledging their mistakes.

Recognizing that we are mistaken is just the beginning; it is crucial, but not sufficient. Even amid discomfort, there must be a perceived benefit to altering one’s stance. Instead of disparaging those who hold misguided views, we should adopt a more empathetic perspective, acknowledging that we too could harbor similar delusions under different circumstances. Perhaps we should strive to make the journey to redemption less painful and more accessible, fostering an environment of compassion that encourages doubt and reflection.

Apologizing is often a daunting task, yet it becomes easier with practice. The more frequently we apologize, the more we understand that there is no shame in doing so; rather, failing to apologize when warranted is a far greater issue.

Let’s embrace the act of apologizing and, importantly, create a culture where it is straightforward for others to do the same.

Chapter 2: The Role of Compassion

Listening to 'LUNA' by Pascal Schumacher has inspired these thoughts. I appreciate your engagement with this message!

Who am I, you may wonder? I am both a musician and a writer, intertwining my passions. Feel free to explore my creative world further.