Chapter 1: Understanding Learning's Complexities

In today’s discussion, we will delve into one of the most significant challenges I encounter as an educator. This concept is particularly meaningful to me, as it stems from my own experiences in learning, ultimately shaping my approach to teaching.

While the title may seem amusing, we aim to unravel a profound truth about the learning process. When embarking on the journey to learn something new, such as the Greek language, we often envision ourselves fluently speaking it. We create mental images filled with grammar, vocabulary, listening to conversations or music, and reading books to uncover hidden insights.

This vision is valid and represents a crucial aspect of a learner’s journey. Regular practice in these areas can lead to substantial progress. However, as previously noted, today we will focus on the darker side of learning—the significant challenges that teachers face.

Assisting someone in overcoming these hurdles can be incredibly challenging, especially with children. It often feels as though my values as an educator are tested repeatedly in the flames of frustration and despair. It’s heart-wrenching to feel powerless to help those we genuinely care for.

Having spent over a decade in education before transitioning to online platforms, I’ve had the privilege of connecting with individuals from diverse backgrounds and age groups. This experience has enriched my life immensely, making me feel fortunate.

The struggle is not typically about resources, age, or financial factors. Instead, the darker aspect of learning lies within the prophetic beliefs individuals feel compelled to fulfill.

These beliefs often stem from the images we create for ourselves, the internal paradigms we unknowingly adhere to, and the emotional barriers that prevent us from exceeding the expectations of those we hold dear.

I have come to understand that "the beliefs we hold about ourselves are our only true possession." These self-perceptions can either undermine our potential or enable us to thrive, regardless of our circumstances.

The prophecies we feel obligated to fulfill often originate from our formative environments. Many individuals grapple with feelings of inadequacy, convinced that their efforts will always fall short. Despite their talents and positive traits, they perceive themselves as merely a fraction of their true potential.

Why does this happen?

It could be due to physical appearance, financial status, ethnicity, or any number of attributes. For years, I internalized the belief that whenever I received a compliment, it was given in ignorance of the “80%” I felt was lacking within me. This mindset naturally led to unsatisfactory outcomes.

When we examine the beliefs and images imposed on us by societal norms and loved ones, we can recognize that with love and respect for the learning process, we can achieve anything we set our minds to.

Learning is more about psychology than just grammar and vocabulary.

Go deep.

Reinvent yourself.

You’ll discover that mastering Greek is merely a reflection of the extraordinary person you’ve become.

With respect,

Efi Asvesti

Founder, Teacher & Copywriter

@ MyGreekTeacher.com

Like my Facebook Page for more.

If you enjoyed this article and want to read more, consider subscribing to my Medium Newsletter!

Sign Up here for your Medium Subscription.

This collaboration benefits us both: it fuels my motivation to write and share knowledge while granting you access to the vibrant Medium Community.

Check out my website for additional resources:

Home - Learn Greek @ mygreekteacher.com

Chapter 2: The Dark Side of Self-Study

In this chapter, we explore the often-overlooked challenges of self-study, including the psychological barriers that can impede growth.

The first video, "The Dark Side of Self Study," highlights the hidden struggles learners face when studying independently, offering insights into overcoming these challenges.

Chapter 3: Understanding Operant Conditioning

This chapter examines the concept of operant conditioning and its implications for learning.

The second video, "Operant Conditioning - The DARK Side," delves into the complexities of this learning theory, providing valuable perspectives on its effects on behavior.